Do you dream of yourself in a healthy relationship, full of love, trust, romance, acceptance, joy, communication, and ultimately end up counting failed dates and dead-end relationships?
“Every day and in every way I am complete and happy.”
This happens because you’re seeking in another person values that you need to experience daily on your own. The values you seek from someone else are the following:
- Love
- Acceptance
- Security
- Validation
- Significance
- Fulfillment
- Happiness Love, acceptance, security, and significance are some of the basic needs of all people. Can you imagine waiting for another person to fulfill the above needs? This means you’re radiating a lack of the above needs and certainly feeling this way, you won’t attract your ideal partner. From today, instead of having this unconscious and guaranteed recipe for failure looking for a relationship while being incomplete yourself, with chances of attracting only the equivalent, meaning an “incomplete relationship,” adopt a new empowering mindset that indicates to you that “Every day and in every way I am complete and happy.” To support your new positive mindset, ask yourself smart questions, such as:
- When do I feel love in my life?
- How can I have more love, acceptance, and happiness in my life?
- When do I feel significant?
- When do I feel happy?
- When do I feel complete? Your answers should not include the presence of a partner and of course you should put them into action. Cultivate all the above answers and very soon you’ll feel emotionally “full.” Enjoy the drops of joy that each moment hides and remember that “happiness is a choice”!