The acquaintance process
The 7 steps for a successful date are:
Leave your expectations away from your meeting. As I mentioned before, the purpose of the meeting is to get to know each other and have fun. An acquaintance can lead to a relationship, a friendship, or nothing special, depending on the chemistry you have. Getting to know someone takes time and the only way to determine your compatibility with the person you’ve gone out with is time. We women tend to wonder if this is the man of our life, but these expectations don’t benefit us as we don’t know how our experience with this man will evolve.
Be your authentic self. Authenticity is very important. When you’re yourself, you feel comfortable and your meeting evolves beautifully. You don’t need to pretend to be someone else, because after a while the truth will show. Also, I hope you’ve put real photos on your social media, because it’s a big disappointment to have created a false image in his mind that doesn’t match your real one. Use a real photo of yourself that highlights you.
Ask questions without talking about yourself all the time. A healthy conversation on the first meeting includes basic questions about the other person’s life. Focus on what’s important to the other person at this period of their life, without going into over-analysis. The conversation should have a natural flow, focusing on the good things in your life and not on issues that concern you.
Maintain your femininity. Accept all the care from your companion and his initiatives, whether for the place he’ll choose, or if he comes to pick you up with his car and so on. Use your femininity with your way of speaking and your body movement. Smile with your heart and show your companion that you enjoy his company. Also, show him how much you value the presence of a man in your life. Most women are independent nowadays, but they’ve forgotten the value of a man and his love.
Communicate about positive topics. Keep the topics in a positive framework. You don’t need to talk about ideological views on political or religious issues. Nor do you need to analyze how your previous relationship hurt you and about couples who break up. If for example you had negative experiences in previous experiences, you also don’t mention them. There are so many positive topics to discuss. Focus on what’s going well in the world right now and you’ll discover many interesting topics.
Avoid progressing romantically on the first date. It’s better to avoid inviting him to your home on the first date. Studies have shown us that women who completed their date with romantic intimacy, men quickly lose the mystery and their interest in them. Also, men don’t feel special because they assume that women repeat the same in their other dates.
Focus on your companion’s positives. When your intention is to discover your companion’s positives, your companion will express these to you more than their negative aspects. We all have our negative side too, but as we focus on the positives, we give our energy more to them. When you know what you’re seeking from a potential partner, then you’ll be able to evaluate your compatibility soon.