One of the main reasons why an acquaintance doesn’t lead to a relationship is when a woman chases a man and usually doesn’t realize it. And while she has heard that men are the hunters and need to pursue us, because that’s their nature, the counterargument I encounter from my experience is: “But how will he know that I’m really interested in him?” “But I think about him all the time and want to talk to him.” “But I want to meet him.” The behavior of female pursuit results not only in pushing him away, but also depriving him of any inspiration to come close to her and ultimately not giving him the opportunity to show her how he really feels about her.
3 behaviors that show you’re chasing a man
My answer to the above is that I understand all this, but what result do you get when you follow the following three behaviors, which you may believe are normal in an acquaintance, but which, if repeated, contribute to pushing him away.
- You take the initiative to communicate with him in any way and by any means (phone calls or sending emails or messages on social media, etc.). Also, you complain to him because he doesn’t take the initiative in your communication.
- You suggest meeting for a walk or dinner or drinks or you invite him to your home. This case also includes inviting him somewhere you’ve arranged even with your friends.
- You ask first how he feels about you and your acquaintance. Women express their feelings more easily than men, who need more time to recognize them. The aforementioned behaviors don’t give him the space and time to be inspired by your acquaintance. To seek you out and want to spend time with you. Now, you know how you can maintain your femininity by avoiding the above behaviors. Maintain an open and receptive attitude toward him. This way you encourage him, giving him the lead to pursue you.