For you who consciously choose during this period to create a loving relationship with prospects, read about a very important prerequisite that will affect your relationship and this prerequisite is none other than your personal happiness.
How many activities do I do that I enjoy?
**As you’ve met someone, at the beginning of the acquaintance, enthusiasm, passion, and attraction usually dominate. After a few months, if you notice that there’s a change in these ideal conditions of the early period and there’s no longer the intense enthusiasm and pursuit, what could have happened to create a different energy in your relationship characterized by indifference? If we take as given that you’ve made a conscious choice of this particular partner based on your values and the characteristics you seek in them, then you clarify the situation as follows: If we assume that this relationship doesn’t exist in your life at this given period, how would you answer these questions?
- How happy am I during this period of my life in general?
- How satisfied am I with my professional development?
- How am I evolving on a personal level, setting goals and achieving them?
- How satisfied am I with my relationships on a social and family level?
- How many activities do I do that I enjoy? If you answer positively to most of the above questions, then you’re certainly going through a happy period of your life and feel satisfaction. This positive energy and satisfaction of yours will affect your relationship very positively. Similarly, ask the same questions to your partner or you can answer for them by observing them and you’ll understand how their energy affects your relationship. That’s why, when you want to create a loving relationship, you first take care of your personal happiness and then evaluate the person you’ve chosen or are thinking of entering into a relationship with, using the above questions!**