What does femininity mean to you? If we asked this question to many different women, we would receive just as many different answers. These responses reflect each woman’s level of self-awareness in relation to her nature, as well as her unique physical, hormonal, and psychological characteristics that distinguish her from the opposite sex.
Stability of our positive emotions
A Woman with Femininity
Loves and takes care of herself and her partner.
Remains open and available to her partner, allowing him to love, care for, and protect her.
Is positive, joyful, communicative, and has a giving attitude.
Uses her high intuitive awareness for guidance.
A man may initially be attracted to a woman because of her feminine appearance and confidence. On a deeper level, however, it is these behaviors—her openness, positivity, and emotional availability—that will draw him closer and lead to the development of a meaningful relationship.
If a woman appears externally feminine but feels fully autonomous, why would a man approach her? What could he offer her if her behavior signals that she doesn’t need support or care? Why would she attract a partner if she feels she can handle everything on her own? A woman with true feminine power allows a man to care for her and to share his happiness with her.
Modern women work hard, feel stressed, and often believe they have no support system. Yet, a woman can earn her own income, be independent, strong, and decisive, while still allowing a man to protect and care for her. Additionally, using communication tools from coaching, I have seen that couples can be trained to communicate effectively, so both partners feel happy and fulfilled.
In conclusion, no matter how outwardly feminine a woman may appear, if she does not embody the behaviors that promote her femininity, she will not naturally attract a man who is ready to commit.